As I recall, the layout of the Mixer display is dependent upon the order of channels/tracks in the Arrange display. If you want to relocate an Aux in the Mixer display, click on Options->Create Arrange Tracks for Selected Channel Strips. This will plop the Aux into the Arrange area, where you can move it around and place it where you want. The Mixer display will be likewise updated.
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Gus